Navigating Relationship Challenges and Past Experiences

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Farmer Wants A Wife....Do They Make Them like Mama Anymore?

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The farmer advises against 'scorekeeping' and 'petty' arguments, which he believes can be detrimental to relationships. He recalls a date where his advice was met with resentment, leading to an immediate end of the interaction. He shares that his previous marriage failed primarily due to dishonesty and a lack of proper communication, acknowledging his own past shortcomings in addressing issues early on. He stresses the necessity of working through problems amicably for mutual happiness.

Goal: He discusses the importance of communication and avoiding 'scorekeeping' in relationships, sharing personal anecdotes from past dates and his marriage to illustrate how neglecting these aspects can lead to failure.

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things that I've experienced that are absolutely ridiculous and horrible on how I knew right then and there to cut it short end it now and that was it okay and I'll also tell you even in my marriage that these signs presented themselves at times and I ignored them when I should have spoken up and talked about them early on in my marriage I should have done that and I failed myself that way I haven't always been the nicest person I haven't always been the best person to get along with I haven't always been the best communicator but I don't ignore problems and you've got to have a spouse that you can work through problems with in an amicable way so that everybody is happy at the end of the day now let me share some experiences that I've had on dates okay so I've been in the dating World here I've been divorced for right around 3 and 1/2 years years I've been in the dating world for about 3 and a half years and some of the things that I've experienced were one thing I had someone helping me in my shop we're just hanging up banners and this young lady tossed a magnet up to me and I said okay now gently toss that magnet up here to me so I can catch it and I can stick it on there and I can hang this banner up in the garage you're trying to tell me what to do then she slung it up there and hit me in the tooth with a little magnet Kaka right in the tooth do you think we went on another date no way we're just dating you're on your best behavior you're supposed to be your shining star when you just get together and you're just dating and uh the words came out of that young lady's mouth that you and my dad are always trying to tell me how to do things out done get so bad so bad so I think maybe this video is more directed to what defines a good partner and a good spouse secondly and I want you guys to really chime in on all this what makes you think or me think that we have to be married what makes us think that I'm 47 years old I got married when I was 32 fully expecting to start a family out here on this property on this farm and my marriage crumbled it fell apart it fell apart mainly to dishonesty uh to its detriment was dishonesty um I I still very much love my ex-wife I care about her I wish her all the best I hope that in the future um that we both can learn from our

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