Embrace Self-Improvement and Authenticity

different colored hair is usually a big red flag it's not like a normal shade i mean i like pink and blue i've had pink and blue in my hair but that was like teenage years i thought it was cool i mean nothing wrong with that but usually it's a red flag yeah ask about their um family yeah do they have a good family relationship or um i don't know if they don't have a good family unit or aren't close with anyone in their family that's typically a red flag what yeah yeah my parents are divorced but hers are still married which is seems like rare these days because most people seem like they have divorced parents at least as my life progressed i knew people with divorced parents than married ones uh usually in that situation if they're divorced the girl has like probably like lives with their mom or something and if the dad's out of the picture they definitely got some kind of issues the bottom line is if you want to find a high quality individual you have to be a high quality individual yourself you have to put in the work when no one's watching take care of yourself do things you don't want to do to be the kind of person that you want to attract yeah you have to be if you you know are sitting there thinking you know covered in cheeto dust and you know didn't do anything all day making the same dent in your couch deeper how do you think you're gonna like find somebody who's like six leagues ahead of you that they're just gonna magically just oh yeah yeah the funniest part ever when it's like the fat guy with his bag of doritos and he like makes a comment about like the supermodel chick like not having an ass or something and it's just like who are you to say anything but yeah like you gotta put in the work if you want to get it back like i didn't you know when i was in high school uh i didn't really participate in that realm at all i didn't even try because i was like not a desirable person i wasn't a cool kid i was like freaking lanky pale hockey player kid didn't talk to anybody and that was that and i didn't like that so when i started college i decided to do something about it i was like i'm just gonna i'm go to the gym that's like my thing i'm gonna do that and i thought maybe if i make this a part of my life when i'm 30 years old i want to look like ivan drago because he's the same height as me that was like that was my thing i was not like i don't know at least to me i wasn't proud of the way i looked i looked like stickman i was like not not real cool…