"I Can't do it"

doubt doubt will kill any chance you have at success more than any other single factor of low doubt comes from other people planting seeds in your mind that you allow to grow if you want to make it in this world the first thing you've got to do is you've got to conquer those inner voices those inner demons that are crawling around inside your brain telling you that you can't do it well guess what every time you listen to them they win plain and simple it's something that you cannot overcome except if you learn to control your fears to shut those voices up you have absolutely no limits in the world there's no excuse why you can't be successful when you learn to conquer your own doubts your own fears it isn't about education it isn't about your background it's not about the color of the skin I don't care if you're a man or a woman and it has nothing to do with your age let's get something straight money doesn't care if you're 16 years old or if you're 60 years old a lot of people think well I'm too young to really make it big no that's where people start or the opposite case I'm too old I've had my chance I'm over the hill or I can't make it or I failed so many times in the past that is all doubt being too young or being too old those are excuses and those are reasons why you will never make it if you succumb to those you're done just forget it but if you don't allow anything to stop you if you can just just shut those voices up and learn to give it everything you fool in this world I want to use Oprah as an example she had an uphill battle Oprah had the biggest challenge of anyone to conquer the media now when you think of her you probably have mixed emotions about her you probably envious of her and you damn well should be because she came from nothing she absolutely conquered multi media Oprah is it a shining example of what can be accomplished when you conquered doubt lot of the most successful people in the world face the biggest hurdles that's a fact and what makes them successful is them is the their ability to overcome those hurdles it wasn't because they had everything lined up just right and they didn't have any challenges that they were going to face the the absolute opposite is the truth these people had challenges and they grew from the experience of taking them on which made them a stronger individual a smarter individual but more importantly than that a more resilient person and yes they had the same doubters in the world that you have misery loves company and people in your life in your world oftentimes don't want to see you succeed where they fail they don't want to see you going beyond their maximum potential where they've reached and the problem is they could be as successful as anyone else in the world but they haven't learned to shut those voices up and overcome their own self-doubt doubt is one of those factors that will derail you if you don't learn to overcome it the biggest doubters in the world are going to be the people that are absolutely the closest to you it's not gonna come from enemies enemies don't even exist anymore if you actually can think of a person that's your enemy you're putting way too much energy into a negative emotion if you have somebody you dislike you need to forget about them entirely that's not where doubt comes from and you need to push those people completely out of your life out of your world out of your thoughts 100% that negative energy is gonna hold you back but that's a different topic altogether no person watching these videos should ever be able to identify even one person in their life that's an enemy if you have that person in your radar screen that person needs to be completely taken off your radar screen and completely wiped clean of your mind to the point where you can't even remember their name and if you see them face to face you forget who they are literally I have done that and it's successful and on a different note nothing pisses off one of your enemies more when you happen to run into them and you can't remember who they I'll tell you straight up they know who you are and there's not a bigger put-down for you to go what's your name again I'm sorry because it just put belittle them that much but that's not the topic of this what we're trying to do is wipe and doubt from your minds and doubt is gonna come from the people that are closest to you your loved ones that seem to have the absolute best of intentions and they might so listen I get that wrong but they also might not understand those seeds that they're planting with those little comments oh honey you know I really hoped for the best for you that is a tough that's a tough thing that you're trying to accomplish do you have a back-up plan that's the worst thing you can say to anybody that's really trying to give it their all there is no backup plan there is no backup parachute you're gonna go for it you're gonna succeed plain and simple it's those little tiny things that derail you from accomplishing your real goals they're close to you we're gonna assume that those are good people but that doesn't mean they're the right people for what you want to accomplish I don't care what kind of business you're trying to build I don't care if you're trying to land a record deal or if you're trying to get a book launched it doesn't matter what you're trying to do that self-doubt will be the greatest limiting factor and that self-doubt comes from those people planting little tiny marginal seeds in your mind but your mind picks up and starts your mind gives the fertilizer to just one or two little comments and your mind just grows that into I can't do it or this that spits those voices in your head that you need to control you need to shut them up so how do you overcome self-doubt self-doubt is in each and every single person every person that's ever lived there's nobody that's never heard that voice in their heads telling them that it can't be done but there are plenty of successful people in this world that has started from absolutely nothing they didn't have an education they didn't have all the opportunities that you think they would have to get started with but they were able to shut that voice up and overcome it so how do you do it discipline it's about mental discipline and it's about recognizing that doubt when you hear it inside of your head when you can recognize that when you begin when you can begin to understand that voice that's telling you something can't be done you know what Stan you can't you can't produce a video you can't produce a motivational video teaching people how to recognize now who's gonna want to hear that in the landscaping community landscapers don't care about doubt what do you do it Stan why are you producing videos motivational inspirational videos why don't you just go out and show people how to cut grass or how to install a retaining wall that's the voice that happens inside my head and you know what I kicked that voice to the curb and I just do it I just get on and I just do it it doesn't matter you've got to just go for it you've got to be able to say you know what there's more to me than this I recognized you for what you are you are limiting me nothing is going to limit me I am going to be the strongest version of myself absolutely possible and I'm not going to let you a little tiny voice in my head tell me anything different when you can recognize that voice when you can understand what it is it's nothing good there's nothing good that will come from that voice when you can recognize it for what it is you can shut it up and then you get you need to just do it you just need to push beyond it you need to go for it and yeah you're gonna probably screw up once twice or three times it doesn't matter how many times you screw up it's going it's going to happen it's going to happen to you gonna happen to me but maybe the fourth fifth or sixth time you're gonna get it right and you're gonna grow from it and you're gonna believe in yourself a little bit more and a little bit more and every time you believe in yourself just a little bit more you're gonna be a better stronger version of yourself that's what it boils down to I love you guys I want you to do this for me listen to that little voice in your head it's not saying anything good to you kick it to the curb stomp it down and tell it to shut up because you've got dreams you've got hopes you've got goals and no little voice in your head is gonna stop you from achieving them god bless each and every one of you no go get them